Interviewing this fantastic lady made my day and you could hear it in my voice. Many times I found myself in a situation where I had faced an ex partner being abusive and pointing blame on me and spreading nasty rumours. This can do so much damage to people and the problem is that the world we live in don't see our actions until the damage is done, well, not everyone will see the damage but some will see and regret the damage they have caused.
I want to know if you guys have been in an abusive relationship and had nothing but hell with them?
What Jennifer was saying in this podcast was down to a tee and i am so glad i had the opportunity to have interviewed her. She explained that sometimes when this sort of thing happens, it could be that both have rather jumped out of a relationship or experienced some kind of trauma in their childhood, but obviously not just that; that's why I recommend you listen to the podcast. What she has said has made my mind at ease. I always thought that I was the one with the problem but truth is, it wasn't. However, you have to learn to forgive and find ways to accept what has happened. Of course there isn't a magic wand to make everything better, its finding ways to cope with what has happen rather than trying to find a cure that really isn't there.